I have had some interest to try and understand what it means to be in love The best I could get out of my reading was, “love is hard to be explained.” Words, I am told, cannot fully describe the feeling of being in love. “In love” could mean entangled in a place where you cannot fully explain the logistics of getting out. I hope you gotten my point, in that I am trying to make you understand what it means to fall in love and how hard to explain it; after all it is called “falling in love.”

There are two basic women in a man’s life and I will try as hard as I can to make you see how they are two and two alone.

  1. The woman who makes you realize yourself and your world too.

As much as you have all the women you have ever dreamt of; dispute that that  perhaps they are more than 10, but understand not all of them you can stand to defend the experiences you had with them. Out of the ten you have or had, there is that one you will give most credit for making you realize your worth. There is that woman who made you be the man you are. This is the  woman who made you to know how awesome it feels to love a woman. This is the type of woman you will remember every day. Even if you will be married by now, her memories will stick at the back of your mind or can flash at the back of your mind once in a while. You owe most credit to her for making you realize the value of life and how valued you can be by somebody you were not born with and of the opposite sex.

  1. The woman who puts you together after the first one has gone.

This is the woman most men marry. Out of frustration, some men get down and need to be uplifted. This is the time when this woman comes to the picture. She makes it her project to pull you up from that pit of despair and frustration and then brings you back to your senses. If there is any time you realize the value of getting married, it is at the popping of this woman. The day you find a reason of having a mate by your side is the day you realize you can be overpowered by the forces of a gone woman; the first one. Later you realize that the power of a sensible woman still has the more power to make you come back to your true self. You marry this woman; you spend the rest of your life with this woman. You make her the mother of your children and she stays with you by your side all through the journey.

I cannot take any stand and say that any of these two women is special or not; you are the people to take a stand on who is more special than the other according to you. The only point I know is that these women are there in our memories and we should appreciate them dearly for making us to be the men we are today. Still others will need to appreciate them for making them the men they will be in the future.


Geoffrey Ndege

Geoffrey Ndege

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